It may or may not stir the pot enough for my H to deal with his issues. If it does great, we'll see what happens...if it doesn't, what have I lost?
UP this is correct. HB has told me several times that you must risk everything in order to gain. That is what you are doing and their is no other way.
Thanks Lance. Although at this point, I feel like I have nothing left to lose and only something to gain here. It took getting to this place for me to be able to take the "risk" as you say. However, moving forward like this has to be done from a place of peace and acceptance otherwise you are reacting or just hoping for a reaction. You have to get beyond that thinking that today could be the day that something could change.
