Fact is, I'm not responsible for her cheating...she is responsible for that all on her own.
Exactly, they have other options than cheating but they feel justified to do it. However, again, it eventually catches up with them and when it does it too becomes your fault.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again