So I figure this question may have different answers for different people, but I've wondered how LBS see the issue of wearing their rings. My WAS has had hers off since April. To date, I have continued to wear mine reflecting my commitment to our M. An outward sign of my commitment to and ultimate confidence in our M.
However, I have been struggling with continuing to wear it over the last few weeks for a few reason. One is that the rings, to me, also reflect a mutual commitment each of us gave to the other and if she is not presently committed to working on the R and our issues then there presently is no mutual commitment. A second related issue is who am I having an R/M with if she is not wearing hers? Myself?? A final one is couldn't continuing to wear the ring even be perceived as an implicit sign of pursuit and of clinginess/neediness? Happy for any input on how others see/saw this in their situation.
Me-53 W-49 D22,D18,D15 T-Since-12/2001 Married-9/2004 She Moved Out-5/28/2010 Piecing start-04/2011 Now-together Thread http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2079304
