Originally Posted By: Babydoll

It is strange their perspective on things... My H says he filed bc I said we either get divorced or you work things out (which I did, but not thinking he would file) but I can't take the full blame. Maybe only 25%. Lol.


Yep, that's similar to what my WH said. That I left him because I moved out, and I also said some very sharp things to make him think I wanted out. I agree with you, though-- I can only take 25%.

He also said "I think about getting back together with you all the time, but I worry that we won't be able to make it."

He came over last night, and said that he would respond to my email response soon.

As he left, he responded to one thing I said. I had said that every time he leaves my place, I'm sure that he's going to a place or with people that he would rather be. And as he left he said, "I don't leave your place with something better to do; just want you to know that."

So we'll see.

Thanks for your responses, guys!