u so right Punch. suspect my W fell right into hands of FB predator. it is not to say that she is entirely innocent bc she is NOT. but know from OMW that OM had tendency to do these things on FB. had done it in past w/ other women not just my wife. that's his M.O. W was in the right place at right time w/ right mindset, i.e., dissatisfaction w/ M, w/ me, etc. our M had been limping along since last year w/ my sh!tty DB'ing. smile