Well, having knowledge that my H was trolling on facebook, chatting up old girlfriends months ago I am certainly not the biggest fan! Having said that, I do have a page so I can share pictures and such with my family and friends because I live so far from them. H suspended his after I made it clear I was not going to put up with that kind of behavior.
I think most people know deep down if they are vunerable to inappropriate use of Facebook. The question is, will they be disciplined enough to self-monitor. It all starts out innocently enough. A wayward spouse is not of a self-disciplined mindset - it's all about their feelings of the moment - so I just don't trust it. Anyone that starts seeing their spouse "drifting away" should start taking a look at that facebook page, imo.
