IB,
During the bomb my H said he'd been unhappy a couple of months. Shortly after that he said he'd been unhappy for 13 years.

The number of unhappy years does seem to go up for them as they keep having to justify what they've done.

Do something to take your mind off your H and his antics. Put the focus back on you. It's there that it will do you the most good.

Believe nothing that they say and only half of what they do. Stop trying to figure your H out, it's a waste of your time. Time better spent on YOU!

(((Hugs))) to you, IB. Have a good weekend!