He works alone, from home, a computer guy. Nobody to answer to. He claims he uses them to "relax" from his "anxiety".
There is no exposure. He moved out, then got a gf. I told him mom, and although she said "sorry he's being an a$$," she also told me she is going to be partial to her son's side. Frankly, his whole family is passive aggressive and avoids each other so I don't think they care. The ones he has told presumably agree with him that if he is separated, he is "free" to date whomever he wants. REmember, both brothers are drug addicts, dad is abusive, and mom is a sex addict. Parents are divorced.
PS I'm also going to ask L for a "no paramour" thing - I don't know if we have them in our state.
Also, what are "truth darts" - you advised this earlier back: "You need some good truth darts to throw at him.. statements.."
