I don't know, do I try to make her miss it by staying dim or do I try to be the one she can't resist by being there for her? I guess I have to get the DR book back out and read up.
Maybe something to do during a flight...if you figure it out, let us know because I have the same problem. Cutting off most contact has only made her feel the M is dead more, but when I was at home she was oblivious to the effect of wanting a D on my desire to talk.
Is it as simple as... - be there for her, but make her open the doors (listen but don't begin), hoping that she sees that the "newer" you is a different person that she doesn't want to leave anymore? - OR ignore her until she wants you, hoping that she doesn't get so used to coldness & isolation that she gets a new life that doesn't include her H?
I also wonder if the DB books are more written for women getting back their men than men getting back their women.
