i saw ur post AG and i almost thought it was me writing it. W not happy w/ M. on FB. friends w/ OM2 in FL whose M also happens to be in sh!tter. plus he is just the type to try n bag my W which he did. ha. bc they start to bond. he moves to NY for job in 3/10, continues w/ FB. things progress. goes from EA to PA. ILYBNILWY bc IL OM2 i guess. next thing u know m dealing w/ A, exposure and trying to figure out what i will do w/ 5 kids and WAS along w/ OM2 w/ 4 kids (not that he IS my problem other than trying to exorcise him from my family's life). r these f'ing people insane? yes. sure it wasnt FB's fault bc M had problems, but FB didnt help.
thus my take on FB? utterly detest it. do not see point of it. would eradicate it if i could.
________________________________________________________________ M: 42, W: 40 T: 18y, M: 15y S7 S9; D4 D13 D15 --------------------------------------------- Nov 2008 - Feb 2009 - EA/PA - OM1 Mar 2009 - Exposed - W didnt come clean 100%, admitted A, no details May 2009 - Nov 2009 - FT but no resolution Nov 2009 - DB'ing (not very well bc) Mar 2010 - ILYBNILWY - still ML regularly Mar 2010 - Wife shuts me out of FaceBook Mar 2010 - Sep 2010 - EA/PA - OM2 (lives in FL but working NY) 9/1/10 - OM2 moves back to FL, his M estranged in past, 4 children 8/31/10 - install keylogger (shouldve done it sooner, duh) 9/6/10 - Confront W/OM2/OMW2 9/7/10 - Exposure family/friends 9/7/10 - W says may file D, talk sep? 9/7/10 to present - OM2 discloses A in detail to OMW2, offers wife 100% transparency 9/14/10 - Communicated OM2/OMW2, end contact, sep no longer option Sept 2010 - W initially won't admit A until 9/16/10, wanting "closure", now reluctantly agrees no contact but not transparent yet (big step hopefully) --------------------------------------------- Current - Contact with OM2 unknown but suspect done for now Current - some details revealed 9/16 but no transparency yet Current - Talking Retrouvaille, probly too soon
