I would think being a bit more demonstrative would help him to see that you do care. A bit of a 180 for you...good thinking. You don't want to rush the sex/stuff anyway I would think but then again I am not off in another country with a hot guy. When it is right you guys will find a way.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory