No, I didn't ask him to warn me when he's going to disregard my feelings. This is how he rewrote what I said. I had said I was in no way comfortable with S5 being around OW and that it was not ok with me and if he was wanting to do that we need to go to parenting classes, read articles, and AGREE how and when if at all it is appropriate to introduce S to someone we are dating. The point is he introduced them when I had clearly stated it wasn't ok with me. H tried to say "well if you aren't going to COMPROMISE with me" (MC lingo!!!grrr!!) then you can't control what what I do and I'll just do it without talking to you , BECAUSE YOU DON'T WANT TO TALK ABOUT MY GF.
He claimed to "not remember" when I told him I thought it was in no way appropriate for OW to meet S, and even we had a huge argument that lasted days!!!!! I still remember it because I had to stay at a friend;s house and it was so traumatizing I started going dim then. He claims to "not remember" this. Paleez!!!!
He refuses to see -this is bigger than just introducing S to someone he is dating. This OW is the reason (or excuse!) he decided not to work on our marriage. He will not listen to me when I say this nor see my point of view, but it's what I"ve come to believe through this forum.
H is not only disrespecting our M by shacking up with OW, but he is disrespecting how it I and S5 feel to introduce this interloper.
Make more sense?
I don't know why I keep trying to TALK to him, like I can reason with an addict! So ok - ACTION.
