Originally Posted By: Tam
I quit and would you come back to me?


This tells me you are really not ready for that.

Do you really want to sacrifice yourself for this M?

If he came back you would fall back into the same dysfunction.

You

Him

The marriage.

I am glad for this

Originally Posted By: Tam
I am not mad at all. I feel sorry for him that he can't find peace.


because this is reality.

Don't get sucked in.

You realize it because

Originally Posted By: Tam
Help me!!! the Vacuum that is my H is sucking me back in!


So

you just gave yourself good advice.

Just another hill on the rollercoaster. More to come...

Stay calm.

Stay focused on YOU


My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am