Originally Posted By: TimeHeals
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Not a peep from H today. Really really missing him right now and not having DS isn't helping


Good Gawd, woman, he's seeing somebody else and treats you like crap. How would you like living with somebody who was seeing somebody else and treating you like crap?

Time to think about that gratitude list. If you get past this hump, you will be stronger, and then you can be thankful for it because it made you stronger.


Yes he may have treated her like crap but that does not stop her from loving him. I think that you have to let yourself feel your emotions from time to time. You can't always be strong. That was her husband...they had some good times together. She is not just going to never think about him. I speak from experience...yes my husband did me wrong but I still miss him. I am sitting here alone on a Friday night when normally he would be here holding me. I am strong but that does not stop me from thinking about it and missing him. Mystik be real with your emotions. You can feel the way you want to feel. You can cry if you want to cry. Just know that you will make it and everything will be alright.


Me (32) H (36)
Together (12 years)
Married (3 years)
Children (4 ages 11,9,7,6)
Bomb dropped (November 09)
Seperated (January 29, 2010)