I heard you loud and clear after the first post.
grin

She is trapped and it's your job to make her feel that she is free to go. Helping her financially does not accomplish that.

Take your time off from her. Be the best dad you can be for your kids. Don't worry about going out for her sake.

Work on a perception. She is watching your every move. She is miserable on the couch but she is watching you.

Work it.


Enjoy the Silence