Yes. The Chicago Tribune has a weekly column called the Fixer where a guy sifts through a list of people getting screwed over and starts making calls. Inevitably, things work out.
Another interesting meeting. I had lunch with my city's most successful developer. He's going through a divorce. Again, compare notes time. He's spent $1 million on the divorce so far because the prenup he signed 19 years ago didn't mention legal fees -- so he was forced to pay the STBXW's fees.
We were supposed to talk from noon to 1 p.m. I didn't leave until 2:30 p.m. I gave him some DB wisdom from this site. I told him how STBXW is like an Alzheimers patient. She looks and sounds like the woman I married 14 years ago, but that person is long gone and has been replaced by someone I don't know at all.
Also, he liked the "It's a marathon not a sprint" analogy.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6