She is miserable. You are not.

That's a lot better than WAS having fun while you were miserable at home wondering.

Turn it around. Be interesting, mysterious, happy and excited.

Make her wonder how could that be.

Be funny, flirt with her out of your normal character. Be witty, turn around and walk away. Be a magnet or what Coach likes to say - be a catnip.

Cat that sleeps on her job needs to be awaken.

Disturb the pattern.

Enjoy the Silence