Still letting her be crabby and not asking or trying to fix anything. I listen when she does talk, but she hasn't initiated anything since our D talk a week ago. The kids are having trouble at school and it's really got under her skin. When I get home from work, she is already a mess. I help with homework and try to calm things down. I get the kids showered and in bed most nights and I go to bed myself. I don't stay up and watch TV with her or try to make small talk.
I have asked her several times this week if she has found anywhere to stay. She says she can't find anything she can afford. No kidding.
She still hasn't taken any responsibility for anything and maybe she never will. Not my problem. I am trying to take care of the kids and myself.
