I, too, am glad you have found the light at the other end of the tunnel. I have followed along but didn't feel I had much good advice to offer. I remember several times when I needed support here that you stopped by and offered it even when you were in the midst of your own hard times. I appreciate that.
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I admit I was a total wreck when I just started out. I am so much happier without W now.
Man, do I understand. I know I have a lot of hard times ahead of me, but since I have decided that my old M is over and I don't like the person my W has become, I am more relaxed and I really wish she would just go. I started the process with my L but told her to hold on to the papers. I don't want to do the work for my W. I will not be the one to leave my kids. The point is I know what you mean about being happier. Good for you.
Good things will happen for you. For all of the LBS. You have found yourself again. I am happy for you and proud of you.