There are no real deadlines but I feel like I'm letting opportunities pass by if I stay here and we are not (he is not) going to try at all.
How do the men act here when they get the bomb? Your H needs to do some work. Your H needs to come back to the marriage with his head and heart in the right place. Until that happens do what is best for you and your kids. You can handle it.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
