My wife has always been a planner. She now has managed to plan just about the entire weekend away from me. Tonight, she's taking my D's to dinner with a gf, then hanging with her gf to watch the game afterwards - won't be home until late.
Tomorrow morning she's going to one of my D's activities and won't be back until I am at my sister's house with my S. Then's she's going to our friend's party without me (which is definitely better since there will be lots of drinking) and staying over (which is good - no driving). We have about 2 hours planned together with my son on Sunday for an activity that's been planned for months, then I'm going to the football game.
I know I need to give her space and let her go. But, this just pisses me off. She doesn't know that I am mad at all. I haven't been negative at all - mostly just OK's and normal logistics discussion.
Somebody please talk to me and tell me if I am off base to be feeling this way. I could use some encouragement right now.
Me: 46 WAW: 43 M: 8.5 yrs, T: 9.5 yrs Best friends b4 marriage: 2 yrs EA/PA: 8/10 Told me she doesn't love me anymore: 9/2/10 Kids: 2 stepdaughters: 17,15, Son: 6