Can anyone tell me how they go from being depressed to replay? Lance had told me he thinks my H is in replay. I've been going through this for 22 months now.

Just in March, my H was talking about dating again etc. then a few days later he texted me and said he didn't think it would be a good idea.

Other things happened......then all of a sudden in the middle of May he tells our D13 that he will read my texts but not respond. It was out of the blue.....I had NO idea why or anything.

Now he is taking ADs, getting involved with D13s school work etc. But all of this week has not contacted her at all. And he was talking to her every day just last week, and was with her last weekend.


M 41
H 35
D 12
S 18
Separated 11/08