NCU, I just wanted to add my support for you. Your speech to your H was spot on, lay it out for them as it is. I feel that I have also 'loved' my wife to much and in the process lost myself, and my needs and wants. You ,like me, now need to find purpose in life and direction. Don't be put off by your age as regards starting again, how do you think I feel at 64? We all hope that our spouses will see 'sense' and return, unfortunately we can only control our own actions. I would reaffirm what the vets on this forum have told you, work on yourself first. Bon courage!!!
My sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2074259#Post2074259 M:64 W:45 Married: 08/07/2000 No children Bomb drop:05/04/2010 Moved out:05/04/2010
