Yes you can still be divorced and still both own the home. You just are both responsible until the house sells. Otherwise stop talking to H unless it has to do with the house or an emergency. He is playing you emotions and you have to just not talk to him for a while.
Me29 S3 H left 4/1/09 I file 8/2/10 Divorce final 5/17/11 1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52 2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg 3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89