My 2 cents for you would be to consider her gone, out of your life like a sist infection on your back. No talking, texting, etc. Don't tell her you're hurt, don't give her the privilege of even knowing that you exist. At this point you owe her NOTHING.
Yep. Do this. Go dark with regards to your R to her. The only contact you should have should be about co-parenting things.
Question for the board...
Since our spouses so clearly want out...do you guy sthink they have grieved the R already (while we are here feeling like scum?) Or do you think they grieve later down the line, after the fact, when reality hits them that they wanted the D?
