Motto of this story? Who the heck knows what they are thinking? But if they want to go, let them go. Not letting them go means they will treat you like crap, and you don't need that.
Amen to that.
Originally Posted By: hurtinhartford
It is funny how she still wants me to help her decide what to do and it appears that I will undoubtedly pay for the legal fees...as usual to prevent paying out the nose in the future. I will send the email that you authored w/o the okay part in a few minutes. Should I send an email or two to her during this time to keep communication open or just follow her lead?
You only need to send 1 email clearly stating what the deal is. That's it. No following up, etc. She can read, she gets it. You have told her you want to work on M. She knows that. It's not a new concept to her. If she asks you advice, tell her you don't know and right now are protecting yourself/looking of for your own interests if she wants out of the M.
Originally Posted By: Coach
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I think either my W still has strong feelings for me or she is in the wrong profession and should be an actor...no signs of pulling away emotionally.
But if they want to go, let them go. Not letting them go means they will treat you like crap, and you don't need that. 
