Ohh and he has told me on more than one occasion that it is "unfair" he has to live with his mom. He thinks that it is unfair because most husbands that leave get to rent an apartment. Well he can't afford that and pay for half of the house. How is that my problem again???? So distorted his thinking.


M 35, husband 35
M 10
Limbo 9/2009-12/2010 he left for his moms and came home way to many times to count
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