social networking bad for marriage...who knew?

[A_goodman]

Ahhhh, the old one-two-punch. Familiar to many, hated by all.

This is a road map. "I am not happy. I'll leave some bread crumbs. Huh. That didn't work. Guess I'll just spend more time on FB; it makes me happy. Oh wow! Look at all these fellows/chicks who are soooo nice to me. THAT feels way better than dealing with old so-n-so. I have to talk to him all the time, and just the sight of him is really starting to harsh my mellow."

Weeks/months go by.

"What? My increasing time online makes him angry? Tough crap! Did he ever care about what was bugging me? He should have read those bread crumbs. No, whole loaves really! Any idiot could have seen them. I'll bet my new friends would have cared more. Maybe I'll ask them. Wow! My dear friend "Dick" is having a bad M too, we are so alike. He would totally have seen this coming. He said so himself. He is so nice and caring. He makes me laugh and feel good all the time. I haven't felt so alive in years. "

Then, one little thing happens and WHAM! The second fist lands. ILYBNILWY. AND it's your fault.

Welcome to our world. IF your lucky enough to find the site.

This is why it's more insideous than a video game. The Super Mario Bros are not interested in bagging your WAS. But there are a host of scumbags out there with a cursary past affiliation with your WA, for whom the sanctity of marriage is just a speed bump.

Of course, that's just my $.02. And I'm an idiot. Ask my W.