That's sort of what I was trying to say I just didn't get it out so clearly.
Originally Posted By: Steady
hope - you would like a specific thing to happen with a belief you know it would be 'good' for you. Maybe the thing you are hoping for isn't good for you at all and you can never see that looking into the future. detached - no investment toward any outcome. Whatever comes is fine and you'll deal with it accordingly. No fighting what is, on the contrary, embracing what is (reality) and enjoying yourself the whole way.
I especially like how you applied the "We'll see" view to both definitions. That is a healthy perspective. As you said, "I'll see it when I have more hindsight"