Thanks for the advice. Yes, I want to save my M, but from what I gather that is not the advice from the posters. All are telling me if I love her then set her free, plus it protects me financially. I realize that I cannot control her, but the advice that I getting from the L's has not been all that consistent. I am just trying to get clarity before I tell her that I will carry the legal football for the both of us.
