Unfortunately, I don't think my sitch will go in the direction as your appears to be headed. My W has totally detached from me or she has built a fortress so dense that I could not penetrate it. I think either my W still has strong feelings for me or she is in the wrong profession and should be an actor...no signs of pulling away emotionally. But at this moment those are past thoughts and I need to focus on the future.
It is funny how she still wants me to help her decide what to do and it appears that I will undoubtedly pay for the legal fees...as usual to prevent paying out the nose in the future. I will send the email that you authored w/o the okay part in a few minutes. Should I send an email or two to her during this time to keep communication open or just follow her lead?
I defintely do not want to be around my W if she did not love me and respect me. There are too many fish in the sea and I am sure there is one that I am compatible with.