Why are you still trying to control this? Why are you looking for permission to do something.
Look at the end of the day, she will do what she wants to do. She can promise this or that until the cows come home.
Very simple buddy....chit or get off the pot. You wanna to save your M, well then act like it and do nothing - worried about saving your financial future (and trust me I get it) well then act that way. Either way you cannot do BOTH.
Just remember - we are all entitled to change our minds. You can change yours she can change hers.
In the end, YOU must DO what YOU think is best for YOU. If that is to keep fighting for this women because you love her then really what I say shouldn't mean chit. Then again...do you really love her?
Think of it this way....
Do you have a right to YOUR choices? Does she have a right to HERs?
Who decides for YOU and who decides for HER?
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
