WAW left on Independence Day and not communicating

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Your right. It seems that your W started questioning her decision as the clocked ticked closer to D day. But as I read from gucci if I really love her set her free that is in the action of filing for D and not just words of letting them go.

Well, it's not that simple. We spoke after about 6 weeks, she wanted to see me (I suppose to see if she "felt" anything). Then she wanted to go on a couple of dates, so we did, so then she said she didn't feel anything, so I gave the Gucci/robx speech: fine, I get it, you aren't in love with me, and I don't want to be in a relationship with somebody who doesn't really love me. Let's go ahead and finish up this divorce.

So the divorce went off hold, but then she kept calling until I finally said I didn't want to be buddies and that if she wanted to move on with her life, it would probably be easier if she just let go and stopped calling.

She switched to emailing about the divorce dates, etc. No responses from me, and then as the date approached... she came and visited. From there, things have been on a better track in terms of re-establishing intimacy and such... so far.

Motto of this story? Who the heck knows what they are thinking? But if they want to go, let them go. Not letting them go means they will treat you like crap, and you don't need that.