On two ends of the world..

[ris]

I guess I want him to know that it's OK to talk to me. That I'm not trying to play "who is going to start the conversation first" game.

I would like him to know that I don't GAL "in spite of him" but that I'm just doing it for myself. And that he doesn't need to "get back at me" and I'll actually be glad to see him do stuff for himself as well.

You know what I mean? Now, is it a right thing to do to actually let him know of that?