TH,

I am at the point that you were a month or two ago questioning my M and the state of the seperation. I know that my W will go dark once I get the ball rolling and file. The last email that I received from her two days before she left she couldn't wait for me to come home...I never knew I was that horrible to her that she feels compelled to not communicate with me.

I am wondering what I do next once the D action starts...LRT or still communicate occasionally to show her that I am okay with what is going on and that I am moving on...what is the protocal at this phase?

I do not plan to give up on our M even though I am truly setting her free. I will focus on GALing, which will help me to further detach...I love her, but I do not need her to ensure that my life is fulfilled. I wonder since she has totally isolated herself from me if she will ever regret the actions that she took. I guess I shouldn't care and one day I will not!