In my defense (lol) I wanted to say that I stopped nagging a few weeks ago (at least most of it) and the reason I stopped initiating talking was cause I was fed up with being hurt at the end of every conversation.
I'm not exactly sure what I'm trying to say here, except still find an answer to my question :P
You did answer your own ?. Or rather, it wasn't a question... it was an observation). You stopped putting yourself out there to be hurt. Sounds healthy to me.