I don't have any advice for you. If your husband were posting here, I'd have advice for him: just because she isn't arguing or complaining, doesn't mean this "cease fire" is a good thing. Time to step up and do your best Cary Grant impersonation, Guy.
Well yes this is what I'd like to see . But I feel like instead I'm getting the 5-year-old " Fine, I don't want to play with you either!".
Accept that there is only one thing you can change in life and that is you