Or am I afraid of the hostile situation just because I'm an appeaser?
I don't have any advice for you. If your husband were posting here, I'd have advice for him: just because she isn't arguing or complaining, doesn't mean this "cease fire" is a good thing. Time to step up and do your best Cary Grant impersonation, Guy.
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