At the risk of mind reading, I'm pretty sure that the first one is how H perceives it. I don't think that's good, but I'd like someone else to chime in?
You never know.
A lot of men think, "Thank God, she stopped nagging me, give it a few weeks, and then everything will be good again".
I can't count how many men wound up on this site because their wives left them not too long after they had those very thoughts.
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