I think he'll get that impression if you sound indifferent/cold when he brings up a conversation. I don't bring up R talks with my W anymore; but if she does, I'm all ears. Same with non-R talks. I bring those up, maybe not as much as before; but when she does, she gets my complete attention. It's a true 180 for our relationship and it does wonders. Who would have thought it could be so easy? And luckily for me, I really like hearing my W talk.
