I discussed D7's medical issues from last year and truly gave her a fair mature picture of what was going on without denigrating XW. I told her I was a hand's on father, what days my parenting times were and the teacher responded that she would make a second packet for me and put it in D7's backpack on Wednesdays. Finally, I told her that I had a special relationship with D7 and that it was very important that she have 2 parents involved.
The teacher then seemed to get choked up:
D7's teacher: I know. On the first day of school, your daughter was having a rough time and was crying. I asked her what was wrong and D7 said to me, "I miss my daddy".
A lump came up in my throat. I must be doing something right.
Strength and honor.
FIB
This is a wonderful example of real and loving parenting! Strenth and Honor FIB. You rock.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez