I will continue to be a friend, but I don’t think I will be DB’ing as actively as I have in the past.
Not sure what that means, as Db'ing is a way of life. Do what works. Live your own life, detach. What exactly is it that you are NOT going to do anymore?
I am not sure exactly what has changed with your XH, he is still in the tunnel just where is still to be determined.
I think my point is, you have not stopped DB'ing, maybe just changing your focus.
The focus should continue to be on you, that IS DB'ing.
