Your husband sounds very much like my WAW. Didn't argue, didn't express their feelings and when previous relationships were finished, that was it no turning back, but wanted to stay friends. How can this be, is it some sort of dream world they live in? She seems to be emotionless now but turns very angry and hostile when she doesn't get her own way. I am better off in the NC phase.
My sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2074259#Post2074259 M:64 W:45 Married: 08/07/2000 No children Bomb drop:05/04/2010 Moved out:05/04/2010
