Thanks Lance. I will definitely re-read the materials on depression and withdrawal. He wrote this morning and said he has good days and bad days - and there are days when he still don't know what to do and other days where he is completely sure that we need to fix everything and get on with life.
He says he have no right to interfere with me simply going out and enjoying yourself while he is deployed. And he welcomes the thought of me doing a little soul searching and being sure that he is right for me as well. He then said: "You've changed a lot since we first got together, so it's probably important for you to try and objectively understand if I am the rigth person for you - and if you going on a date or two to talk to other guys about life helps you understand that, then that's all good."
Is this a good thing. I don't want to have any expectations, but he asked me to try and now it appears that he is rethinking everything. Darn!!!
OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty Me 44 H 51 T 15 yrs M 9+ yrs No Kids "You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."
