vj68, I feel for you. My sitch is different but my wife has also re-written history and has never, in 12 years complained about anything, but I am supposed to have 'known' she was unhappy. It all seems to follow a common pattern, negativity is rife. Understand that you can only take part of the 'blame' the other part is hers, though doubtless she will not accept that. Self-worth and a PMA are essential and EAs and PAs are a no go area. Read and digest the posts from the more experianced members, it is essential.
My sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2074259#Post2074259 M:64 W:45 Married: 08/07/2000 No children Bomb drop:05/04/2010 Moved out:05/04/2010
