I am not sure, but here is what I've come up with after thinking long and hard - what do you think?
-NC - no more cake eating, "being friends", "family time" etc -no phone calls included - only email -going to the Lawyer this week - fight for more custody (now he has 50%), make him pay the lawyer fees, get him to have to take a drug test and not take s5 in his airplane, parenting classes and anger management classes, no paramour, and keep the status quo (he has S only one night per week) -No more of me being flexible and taking S on "his" nights