BeingMe - I suppose its new-ish - in terms of how long MLC lasts. The bomb was end Oct 09, but he only moved out end march '10. So hes been gone almost 6 months, but since the bomb its been 11 months Gosh...bit scary how long its been since the bomb.
Yes my son is very confused, although I try to make it sound as if the set up is completely normal, not sure if thats how I should be doing it tho - because he's getting a completely false sense of what a family should be. I feel reaaaaally bad about it, but the alternative is to say daddy doesnt know if he loves mommy and thats why hes not living here, and that feels worse - like more damage, I dont know Can someone help me with that also?
But like I say, I do mention constantly that I love daddy and daddy is the biggest strongest man in the world etc , and I try to make sure that he knows that there is love between mommy and daddy, but again - dont know if thats better or worse here
Gosh...bit scary how long its been since the bomb.