I am having a wonderful time away from my dh; yes we have been separated almost a year; his abuse continues and even after my "last attempt" (I have made NO contact other than financial issues or child) since Aug 24th. I am having the TIME OF MY LIFE...it is so sad that the one that I really wanted to share my life with just wanted to control it...
I love NOT having him in my life; I am singing and playing my instrument and writing songs again...
I get my nails done. Spend time with my son. Have friends over for dinner and even had a few girlfriends stay overnight due to our long talks and need for a cup of tea and a bite to eat...my son LOVES my friends and loves to have others over to our home...it is a HOME for me...it feels good.
M -12 Years 1 9 y son (w/me) S-Nov 2009 (and LOVING it; will NEVER go back!) D-soon