That was the hardest part for me; coming to understand that it was abuse but not "intentional" in ways and the conflict that this brought caused confusion and frustration...

I was given a book by Revive our Hearts (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) called:
(The biblical perspective on)
What to do when you are abused by your husband D.Pryde and R. Needham

This book has helped me though my husband is contacting me asking me "if I am done trying to manipulate him"...I am concerned that he will file for divorce and use it to take my son from my custody though we are "shared parenting" right now since he is working nights....thanks for your thoughts.


Last edited by freespirit; 09/17/10 05:43 AM.
M -12 Years
1 9 y son (w/me)
S-Nov 2009 (and LOVING it; will NEVER go back!)
D-soon