Lost, you are doing well and i congratulate you on leading your family and not letting your W's behaviour take you down. You are getting good advice. as Sandi says, post often. She may snap out of it, but only when she's done with her journey, and you can't control that, only protect yourself, your assets and your kids. I am interested in this idea of a journal to let her know about the kids. Could you give me an idea of the kinds of things you write and how often you send it to her? I presume it's email?
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369
